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Okay.

I’m gonna be harsh but I’m allowed as I’m military and we’re usually blunt and harsh.

Mr Miller. If you read this. Stop being a douche, stand by your wife and protect your god damn child from those crazy people who see your daughter as a medical cash cow.

To you both. I hope you have a nice weekend.

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I like you Vulkan ❤️‍🔥

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Aww now I’m blushing underneath my mask 😂.

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Haha 😂

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Me too!! What a mensch 🤩

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This ideology is poised to destroy more than only the children. It is insidious.

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As my daughter would say, ONE HUNDO. 🙌🏼

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Just a shout out to Mr. Miller (I do hope he's reading the comments page too). Mr. Miller, this is your fight too. And the potential collateral damages will buckle your knees.

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Your writing is heartbreaking and sublime. This is deeply touching, affecting. I will pray for you and Mr. Miller. I’m a huge fan of Polish psychologist’s Kazimierz Dąbrowski’s theory of positive disintegration. In my peanut gallery version, it’s the idea that structural stresses cause breaks where stronger bonds must be formed. I’m an engineer, sorry.

I have a huge appreciation for Dr. Peterson. He’s a wise, emotionally intelligent surrogate dad for weirdos and bastards and orphans like me, and I sought him out to confirm that he was vile and all the things he was accused of, only to have his lectures on the Old Testament bring me back to my core. I will always be grateful.

I don’t have kids, and thus no experience and strength and hope to share - but faced with Miss Miller’s dilemma, I would probably come to that meeting with a baseball bat, and deeply appreciate your restraint. Your child is not their fucking social/ideological prop. Fuck those nihilistic assholes! It’s irreversible damage- I’ve read the book and they need to be hit with it until crenellations form on their smooth brains!!

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Thank you for this! It never ceases to amaze me how many reviled voices on the "right" that have been maligned by the left are so incredibly sane, wise and intelligent. I will look up your polish psychologist.

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Well, I’m discovering what a closed minded bigot I was, and I’m trying to get better. I bought into so much absolute garbage and missed so much that was honest, thinking I was the broad-minded one.

Stay strong, Mrs. Miller, your writing is wonderful and your voice is mighty 😍

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Update. American academy of pediatrics being sued by a detransitioner becusse its trans policy sucked and the org was ‘captured’ by crazy ideology.

So. I’m a pediatrician and a member of the org. And the word came down 10 days ago. If you are on a committee or council of the AAP (I am nothing to do with trans) or working on a writing project, you can’t use your official institutional email after Jan 1. You need to give them your personal email.

The commissars are enforcing this. Why? My guess. Subpoena avoidance.

Other thoughts?

I’m sure it has to do with the detransitioner lawsuit.

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The last time I heard of this workaround, it was being used by the likes of Hillary Clinton and Karl Rove for exactly what you’re suggesting, the latter outright admitting such in the open.

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Wow thanks for the confirmation of my suspicion.

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For what it’s worth, I imagine the likes of Jesse Singal, Abigail Shrier, Bari Weiss etc. would be interested in your nugget of insider knowledge re subpoena avoidance.

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Follow up: that didn’t take long.

https://twitter.com/LeorSapir/status/1735781880744563028

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Do not let up on the gas. The peer pressure/glitter-family spellcasting on her in college will be worse, especially if she majors in the humanities.

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Art/theatre at a community college. But yes thank you 🙏🏼

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I pray that other parents will discover your stack and fight for their kids the way you fight for Miss Miller.

I do agree with the other comments that Mr. Miller needs to step up and be a man in every sense of the word. Mr. Miller, what would your own father do if he were in your shoes? Evil is trying to steal your daughter! Man up!! There are no do-overs.

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